haha......about d topic tat discuss b4 this....
fren....
gt ppl asking me..."hw much will u care bout ur fren?"
i answered that person," i care bout each of thm very much, especially those who had become my best fren o those gt a place in my heart".. but i add up,"bcoz i too care bout thm, whn thy din care bout me i will very sad..this is my weakness.."
for me...
i divided fren into 3 groups: normal frens, best fren and another is those fren that can become my listener..
every1 can be my frens n some of these fren will become my best fren after a time if i think thy suitable..but nt all can be a gud listener..nw...i just can say i still finding a gud listener although i oledi gt find one o 2..hahaha......
friends really important in my life..if dun hv friends, i dunno hw can i survive...friends is like air that can let me breath... tat's y i will very of those who really mean to me....so, if they do sth wrong o somethg tat hurt me, i will try my best to forgive them although it is very difficult..i really appreciate every little thg thy give me...but sometimes i found that, not every1 tat u treat thm good, thy will noe o appreciate it...TIS REALLY HURTS!! maybe i'm a selfish person..i need my fren cares me..especially my really2 good fren...dunno y...mayb i really scare of losing thm...SCARE BUT CANNOT SOUND IT OUT...
so whn i sometime moody maybe because of tis....so, i just wanna say sorry if i ever hurt u guys whn i'm moody..hahaha.....
but here is a question that me myself oso dunno wat is d ans...
there is a fren that u really care of..but sometimes when tis fren treat another fren good in front of u, u will feel very sad.. so, izit i'm jealousing o wat?????
anthr is just assume tis fren is a female fren, thn gt another male fren like wooing her, thn u feel very nervous n unhappy, wat does tis mean??? izit scare of losing a fren????
so...i hv many question bout frens topics....really need to learn hw 2 solve all this problems...really headache...
got 1 best fren of mine tat asking me after few yrs, "do u ever think of wat will happen after few yrs whn we graduate n strt wrking n having our own live n mayb stay at different places????" after that, tis fren say to me,"i'm scare" if i din remember wrongly..nw at here...i wanna tell tat fren of mine, i oso ever think of this b4 u asking me n my feeling same as urs too... cz u really really very important to me...wahahahaha...... but i really can say tat, i oso very scare of losing such a gud fren that oso a gud listener (although sometimes u r not)... i hope u noe who i refering to if u gt saw tis post...
that's all for tis time..hehe
8 comments:
i was thinking who is ur best fren dat u mention ah??hahaha....=)
u ask y when got ppl wooing ur fren then u feel unhappy....i think becoz is u scare when she got bf...then she don have time to acc u or listen to u when u feel sad....another reason is becoz u r single dat y u will feel unhappy,i think dis is becoz de hormon unbalance...haha....but when u r in relationship...u will not feel unhappy when ur fren got ppl wooing....
i don kno u understand wat am i talking abt ma...haha....=)
hahahaha........
u man man guess lo...c u can guess o not..heheheehe
hahaha...mayb u say d correct lo...cz i'm still single add on hormon unbalance...hehehehe......
hw come u scare me dun understand wat u say...cz u oso blur2 with ur comment gua...hahahaha
My experience tells me that a real friendship can last forever BUT it's not gonna be the same like what you’re experiencing now. Cuz things change from time to time. Especially when you are graduated, it means your REAL LIFE has just kicked off. You're no longer depending on your friends for living. This is the real fact that you have to accept.
Next, it’s about the friend issue. No doubt, everyone especially to those protective type, they’ll be facing the so-called friend issue as they grow up. Don’t be afraid about yourself, just like YY said, you're probably just afraid to be alone, and this kind of feeling has actly been instilled in us when we were born. If you don't believe, try to recall back your childhood life, I believe there was a time when your best buddy has a better relationship with other friend, you don't feel comfortable. & somehow some kids will even come out with the familiar word, : wo bu yao gen ni hao. LOL.
So you see, there’s one thing you have to learn, LET GO. Caring is good but over-protective of your friends will be bad. They might feel uncomfortable as well. I’m not saying you bad or something, I’m just saying the truth. I ever experienced it you know and so damn it, it doesn’t taste good. So with my words, I hope it’ll help a little bit, at least, for you.
thnks 4 sharing ur experience...thn i nw will start to learn hw to LET GO...thnks 4 d advice...i will try not to so care bout a person..wahahahaha
Haha! Chou Flo, adequate caring jiu hao le ya. Jia you babeh~ :D
ceh!!! chou cactus!!! scare me din care of u ha??? wahahahahah...blek
Haha, tht's the point, chou flo you're clever. :D
Anyway flo, i'm pretty nervous for my project that is gonna due by 2mro noon. Now still rushing for it. Have spent several sleepless night trying to finish up everything. Hmm. This is where you can start caring me by speaking me a prayer. Hehe. Thanks. Muacks. I need a good health, strength and a clearer mind. There you go.... ;D
hahaha......of coz clever la....hehe..noe wat u thinking...wahahaha...wahseh....take care of ur health o instead of rushing ur assignmnt o project...i noe d feel rushing d thg...wahahaha....i will pray it 4 u d...hahahaha...dun worry...must take care oo...hehe...gambateh!!!! muackssss
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